Apple Antics

The Last 3 Months

2010-10-27T20:26:00.000-07:00

Let's just face it, with four kids, one husband, two dogs, one cat and FACE BOOK...BLOGGING has been abandoned. I miss it so and I hope to see it more often, but who am I kidding?

My life is like a hurricane, a tornado and a severe thunderstorm all happening at once. This is a MIRACLE as I type and post what we Apples have been up to these last 3 months.

First of all we celebrated our FIRST BORN child's 11th Birthday!

SO far she has broken my heart, I have broken hers and together we are learning to be a super mother-daughter dynamic duo by remembering to forgive quickly and give our special hugs of LOVE you NO MATTER WHAT!

Not sure how she grew up sooooo fast!

Mia's keeping me busy playing interactive board and mind games. She is my iron sharpens iron intellectual brainiac child!!!

I made my family take some FALL photos with me at Gentry's Pumpkin Patch.They so hate me for always taking photos...but I hope someday they will appreciate the fact that I JUST LOVE THEM SO!!!

Of course, my sweet Little Sister is FAMILY too, and she LOVES me for always wanting to take pictures! And any excuse to hang out with her is always good!

Oh...and then there is me constantly correcting this little man. He is my keep me on my toes, about to lose my cool, just about to spank you son until he just in time gives me a smile and a I LOVE you mommy that melts me into a I LOVE you too son but NEXT time you are gonna GET IT!!!!

Did I mention that this child has a heart as big as the size of TX? She gives the best smiles, hugs and never leaves one thing undone that has to do with making other people feel like they are the ONLY person in the room!!! I have enjoyed spending time with her and she has taught me that life is too short to let it pass you by without her!

SO...I am hanging on TIGHT to her, her sister, and her brothers!

BUT...NOT forgetting to hang out and celebrate some really important friends' birthdays!!
Because...momma just needs a break and a moment to say thank you and I love you girls for being in my life through the mud and the muck!

P.S. I also love you girls that I can't hang out with due to obvious reasons of living very far away!

Most importantly...we finally got a date night which literally took a village to help us do! Even our kids got excited for us too!!! I must say this is the one thing I miss the most, being on a date alone with my man!!! He really is the bestest friend I have!

But of course, our horse and carriage quickly turns back into a pumpkin!

But I DO NOT mind one bit because I know that before too long these little APPLE pumpkins will leave the nest so I will happily take on more fun, messes and mayhem!

Because...just look at them! They are mini me's and mini Keith's that I FALL in LOVE with all over again and again!

AND the most awesome thing is they fall in love with each other over and over again, too!

Prayers to you all that keep up with us for beautiful times like these! I believe it only gets sweeter the more time you love on each other and promise to keep loving in and through all He gives you!

Who Really Knew?

2010-07-08T09:26:00.000-07:00

That so far my summer has been some days routine, some days boring, some days crazy busy, but mostly full of APPRECIATION for what God has so generously blessed me and my family with. I'd like to say I have life all figured out now that I am all of 30 "something" just as I thought all 30 somethings had it all together when I was all of 0-29 years of age. However, it's just not the case. SURPRISE and YAY for me, right?! Seems like I can never get ahead, turn back and fix the mistakes I've made or take back what I just said 2 seconds ago and in the grand scheme of things none of that really even matters. I have so many beautiful people in my life to love on and live this moment for! So here is just a few glimpses into what's new in my world and worth every smile, laugh, tear, heartbreak, and HOPE that we all live forever long after these summer days...

Here she is our oldest proudly showing she's officially a middle schooler!

Can't really say I am so excited:(((

Meanwhile...Mia decides this is her last year in Girl Scouts:(((I just bite my tongue and allow her to decide...

I suppose turning the BIG 8 makes you Make BIG LIFE Changes, mainly on mommy's plans for you. Boo-Hoo on me!
Thankfully...Nico just wants to have fun, playing some T-Ball, aggravating his siblings and keeping me on my toes!And these 2 are growing up fast in so many ways! I mean, this little man cannot look any more like his daddy!

My life is good...just the way it is.

So Now I AM

2010-05-13T07:58:00.001-07:00

Officially a Mommy of Four Beautiful Kids.

And Poor Liitle Guy is Just FINALLY getting his FIRST Blog Post

Here he is:

Joaquin Edward Apple

April 15, 2010

7lbs 5oz

20in long

Hence, being a mommy of four is let me just be REALLY REAL for a moment...HARD, challenging, exhausting, and trying at times. And if you knew even a quarter of what occured days before, during and after this sweet precious baby boy's birth you would be simply amazed of how true God's word IS. The "rain" fell upon the Applehouse, but with God's faithfulness, His promise of a rainbow prevailed. So with pure joy and much love in my heart I am now happy to announce that I AM A MOMMY of FOUR! Welcome Joaquin to your new home that was built on God's love. May you always know that you are and always will be LOVED!

P.S. You are in for a REAL treat with your siblings who could NOT wait for your arrival!

In Just 4 Years

2010-04-06T07:19:00.000-07:00

This boy that God has gifted our family with has brought on sweetness and innocence.
Humor and laughter.
Uncontrollable Smiles, tears from growing up way too fast, and joy.

Adventure and a wild at heart spirit.

And pure love into our home that God has built!
Happy 4th Birthday Nico!
We hope and pray that this year brings on more blessings to your beautiful life!
Love,
Mommy, Daddy, Rylee, & Mia

Just In Case...

2010-03-24T17:52:00.001-07:00

In my nesting phase, of cleaning, organizing and throwing out almost everything, which is definitely setting in with Apple #4 arriving ANY day now, I had to keep record of these beautiful letters written by my first born. I am not sure how she got this big or how I deserved such a precious and rare treasure!!! I just know this is too much for me to soak in as she was just in my womb yesterday it seems and now she is already thinking ahead to college??? Ummm...she hasn't even officially graduated the 5th grade!

Distance, Time and Life...

2010-02-19T07:15:00.000-08:00

That is what happens when families grow up and move out.

However, we all hope to at least make a phone call once a week, even text, or Facebook one another to say we love and miss you. I mean an old fashion hand written letter is a pretty ancient concept for us fast-paced, always on the go people, right?

Well, today's post is not about me and my woes, it is about the people, the family I was born into, I was married into, and the ones who married into ours.

I want to take a minute to personally say Happy Birthday to my mother-in-law.

I hope that you know though geographical location keeps us from seeing one another as often as we would like to, you are always thought of, talked about and loved by us. And our home and our hearts are always open for a phone call, a letter, and a personal visit at any time of the year.

I thank you for opening your heart to me and for doing such a marvelous job of raising your one and only son. I can see so many thoughtful, loving, stubborn even, compassionate, kind and respectable characters in him that could have only come from his mom. I hope to pass on as many of those good traits onto my own children.

I hope and pray this day is filled with God's beautiful precious blessings that were all intended for you!

And to my sweet beautiful sister and her poor unsuspecting husband, thank you for carving out time on Valentine's weekend to spend with us a scrumptious dinner out, a fun night of games and yummy sundae desserts, warm hotel-like beds to sleep in and waking up to delectable smells of a homemade continental style breakfast! And though distance is not so far between us, life brings us so many challenges of seeing one another as often as I would like. But, I am thankful we purposely make time on our busy calendars to catch up and hang out and I will savor those moments forever in my heart. Love to you all both! And look forward to our next event!!!

And here I end with my mom who was born on Valentine's day way across the oceans who came to these parts of the world with just me, your husband, and big hopes and dreams.

Happy birthday to you mom. And because this is my blog, my thoughts, my heart I want to say I hope you still visit those hopes, those dreams of yours mom from time to time. I see so much light in your eyes that just needs to be reminded by those of us you have touched through the years...you are worth it! You have taken care of so many lives and still are today, but it is your turn to live, to love like there is no tomorrow and that is my hope, my prayer for you this year.

I hope you had a great birthday and know that I still think of you as the most beautiful woman in the world today as I did at the age of seven.

I love you MOM.

2010 Brings Surprises For...

2010-01-04T08:54:00.000-08:00

The Apple Kids

That we, MamaApple and DaddyApple, love to plan especially for the start of a new year!!!

OF COURSE...NONE of this would be possible without God and all His blessings He has poured on us to make this all happen...so I don't want to forget to thank our TRUE sponsor of all these surprise happenings!!!

So...sit back relax and enjoy the show. You never know what you will see with the Apples in tow!

After about a good four hour drive and questions of "where are we going?" and "are we almost there yets?", this is what we get...

Because this is what they are seeing from the outside...

And boy do they FLIP OUT when they see what the inside holds for them!!!

Meanwhile the sisters are surfing it up...

And they appear to be naturals at the sport! That's my girls!!!

And you can never leave a waterpark without a try at the wave pool...

They even have a happening hot spot for the toddlers where mom can just sit back, relax and let them go wild!

This was just after the first day of swimming at the indoor waterpark...

The next day was a full 10 hour day of non stop splishin and a splashin with dad while mom was out for the day taking in the shopping possibilities kid-free!!!

Just a hanging out...

Waiting patiently for the last days event which the Apple kids think is all about what mom and dad "want" to do....

BUTTTT....little do they know Dad has plans for more fun!!!
In the SNOW!!!

That's right...a little bit of skiing is in store for the first time ever for the kids that is!

Because back in the days...Dad use to ski way before the kids came along and has since put it on the back burner until now, since his girls LOVE IT. It looks like we will be making this a yearly event real soon!!!

Now...as adventurous as Dad is...Nico stayed behind in the warm inside to hang with Mom in the arcade room where he found some fun suitable things to do. Though, I know he was hoping to try some snowboarding out....

Well...it was a great start of a NEW YEAR, but we of course had to say goodbye and head back home. ALL in ALL I'd say the Apples had a blast just being together and flying by the seat of our pants!

We wish everyone a blessed 2010 and we hope it is FULL of SURPRISES that bring laughter, love and joy !!!

Oh yeah...we musn't forget we did make one last pit stop for Nico!!!

Surprise Surprise!!!

Tis' The Season

2009-12-12T14:26:00.000-08:00

To Dress Up and Party Like 1980 something never went out of style!

Meet my date...Gene Simmons and I don't think Madonna's famous pink Material Girl dress looked quite the same then as it does now...

Here are me and the girls showing off our own unique 80's look...

And of course the boys looking ever so punk, hip-hopping, preppy and rocker-likeAnd no 80's Party would be right without some jamming Christmas music from our very own boys to men...
We musn't forget the games and there are always winners that must pose
And pose again...
I would have to say, we all had a blast from the past as we celebrated Christmas with the coolest Sunday School Class ever!!!

We hope you all are taking some time this season to share the joy of having good friends and family in your life and giving all the glory to our Saviour!

A Texas Style Thanksgiving

2009-12-09T09:18:00.001-08:00

I know, I know, it is Christmas time right now. However, if you are still tuning into my blog, you know I am a bit behind in keeping up these days! Excuses excuses! And blah, blah, blah...

I will just get started with it all began with a 13 hour drive one way, where we make our first stop to visit with one of my best friends since we were in the 7th grade! I miss her like crazy!

She takes our family out to lunch and of course...I had to take a picture of our kiddos. Her boys are the biggest ones. And she actually watches kids like I do and she brought them along, which are also kids from an old high school alum.

Then off to see GranApple and PapApple where we don't waste any time and get riding on the tractor...this is what you do in TX right?

Along with fishing...And receiving handmade with love one of a kind presents like these where you can hang your softball gear on...While brother receives the coolest specialty handmade wooden rubber band shooting gun ever! I think he likes it...

He likes it a LOT!!!Then off to Mom and Dad's Old Stomping Grounds, where we show them some cool "hamburger joints" we use to frequent, where of course the boy finds something he might enjoy.... We take a tour of the best college stadium ever. Those Aggies fought a good fight against them T-sippers! There's nothing like the Spirit of Aggieland.

And looks like he just couldn't wait. We are pretty sure he hasn't been the first or the last...
We then show them some more of the Aggie traditions...
some not sure I was ready to share, but some they needed to know!
And size up the boy for his future...

Then leave with a couple of souvenirs that are Biblically based of course...

Before we head off to grub at the best Mexican restaurant EVER to show off our TN style and visit with more of our dearly missed friends!

Mind you, those two older yet younger looking boys were just babies not too long ago.
Seriously, I knew them when they were about the age of my two oldest now!!!
Then of course, the dreaded goodbyes, and the hope to see you soons...came and broke my heart. However, the memories will last forever! Thank you TX for being the best Southern Hospitality around! WE love you!

And this is us fueling up for our 13 hour drive home to TN!
Where we Apples are super Thankful to be settling and raising our God given family!

A Long Over Due

2009-11-04T08:59:00.000-08:00

Happy 10th Birthday to My first born child Rylee....

Dearest Rylee,

The days before you were even born, I thought I would be so prepared with a college degree, a career path that would impress everyone at my 10 year high school reunion, a savings account that the financial gurus urge you to have at least six months worth of your salary saved up for "emergencies" and a perfect white picket fence house to bring you into this world with, well...I did a few of those things. BUT nothing, not all the books, the advice, the professionals could have prepared me for compares to the moment in time I first met you on September 24, 1999 at

5:31 PM...

My heart, my soul, my self-centeredness realized that I had a more important role to fulfill honor and cherish from this day forward.

I was your MOMMY!!!!

And with that right, I took lots of pictures of you, of you and your daddy, of me and you and of the three of us of course. And looking back at the past decade of your existence I also learned a lot about who I was, who I wanted to be and who I needed to be for you. You, being the first had no idea in your first 10 years of life have taught me more than I have taught you. I want you to know that you have made this world a better place to live and love in...

And as the years passed, I knew I had to eventually let go of you slowly and share you with the world. At times I cringe at your style of dress, but not your style of friends, so for your 10th birthday, you chose to take your little sis and your best friend on a camping trip...

And thankfully, you still chose for your mommy and daddy to be with you....
Though, I know it won't be too long before you must go and experience this world on your own. Until then, I promise to keep learning how to be your mommy and loving you to the ends of the earth. Thank you for being my first....

Love,
Mommy

Not so sure I am ready

2009-09-18T06:33:00.000-07:00

Ready for what? You might be asking? For this girl who sits in the car daydreaming about driving one day....

As I sit in the ER room last night waiting to have 3 staples put on the top of her head. Now when I say staples, I really mean staples like the one you use to hold papers together. And in exactly one week on her 10th birthday she will have them removed just like you would remove staples from a paper. Now you might be wondering how does one get to the point of having her head stapled together?

Well...you prop yourself on top of the kitchen counter top even after Mom says, "please don't do that, it is DANGEROUS," and proceed to hit your noggin on the corner of a kitchen cabinet and slice it wide open. Then you proceed to scream bloody murder and say things like..."This is the worst day of my life, EVER!" and " I NEVER want to go in the kitchen again!" and continue on with more intense screaming of the bloody murder kind. Thankfully, I had plenty of recruits to step in and help with the mini-crisis at hand. By the way, many many thank you's from the bottom of my heart for taking over and allowing me to get her to the ER quickly.

And as we rush to the hospital of course in a calm and non-speeding kind of way, Rylee asks about 1001 questions, all of which I gave calm one word answers to. Now, the one question that stumped me and had me smile was..."Will my brain still work?" Needless to say, we make it safely and all is well. We left with extras like a stuffed bear and an orange popsicle. At least she left smiling over those two things. I am sure the hospital will be smiling just as much as they process the bill...

In the end, I am thankful she is back to normal. I am sure she is having a fun day of show and tell today at school. Oh the joys of" war wounds"! If anything, I do hope she has learned her lesson!!! We shall see...

Where am I NOW?

2009-09-11T10:57:00.000-07:00

That seems to be the question from everyone these days directed towards me. My dear husband comes in late from his 2nd job to inform me that I have NOT blogged in 3 weeks? Now, this is coming from the man that abhors it when he finds me on the computer checking email, FBing, or blogging. So...what do I do now? Find myself trying to figure out where am I? In my so called life? To be frank...I am all over the place, unsettled at times when I am not all over the place, and completely full of myself most of the time. All that being said, I am still here. I am 81/2 weeks pregnant, nauseous, but blessed. I miss some things and some people from my past, I savor the present, and cannot wait for the future that lies ahead. I do hope that many of you that check my blog continue to as I sift through the jungle I live and love. And of course I didn't want to leave without a few snapshots of where I've been...

Watching these girls hang with their friends, making their own fashion statements and memories...

Watching this boy grow up way toooo fast....

Hanging at the ball field cheering on our girl kick some butt...

Finally meeting our friends' long awaited baby girl from Ethiopia...
And loving this man I call Mine forever and always...

Somehow THIS makes IT REAL

2009-08-24T14:56:00.000-07:00

Today at 1:20 PM, I pee in a cup, weigh myself, and get an unltrasound and...

The Dr.finds Baby Apple#4's hearbeat and little itty bitty body...

He or she's estimated arrival date is April 16, 2010!!!

Chores, Reflecting & Funny Face

2009-08-20T12:48:00.000-07:00

With the new school year officially in session, lots of new and exciting changes have been put into practice. For one...the 5th and 2nd grader have been given specific chores to do each day, which they have both been doing quite well I must boast a bit! It has been challenging on my part to not "correct" their way of doing the tasks in order to allow them room to learn and grow...I love to watch who is more task oriented and who would rather put it off until she absolutely has to. Take a guess which one is which???

Along with their chores, they have both been doing "quiet time"...to me that has been inspiring to know that they are carving out 10-15 minutes of their young life to read the Bible, an extra devotional chapter from a book that is age specific and then journal a prayer. The journaling a prayer was actually their own idea...sniff sniff.

As for the little man who is soon to be the big brother...he is making up his own "comedy routine" that has been quite humorous mainly to him and yes a little to mom and dad. However, I don't think that when he says to me, "mommy, do you want to see my funny face?" and I reply "of course I do" He proceeds to turn around and MOON me! Yes!!! I did say MOON me is going to be too funny to others. So...we have been practicing making "funny faces" with our real faces and not so much with our rear ends. Though...it was quite hilarious and I was unable to do nothing but laugh uncontrollably!!!

So...here's some of their funny faces and boy do I love how silly they can get! If only I can remember, not to take everything so serious myself!!!

Been Thinking...

2009-08-13T21:14:00.000-07:00

And that's never good...But with the excitement of this one little test result ...

Making baby Apple number 4 on the way, my reality of LIFE has just gotten really REAL. The questions, the not knowing the answers, the tears, the "hormonal" moments are kicking in. And...YES...I know God knows better than me. I just want to know that I am not alone in this what if's?, what if nots?, the hows? and WHY do people always say the wrong thing at the wrong time??? and why do I feel it necessary to keep IT all together? Because we all know that's NOT the truth, yet the "Martha" in me keeps telling the "Mary" in me pull yourself together girl!!! So that leaves me with my thoughts, my hopes, my dreams, my prayers of making my family of soon to be 6 even stronger in this precious time of growth, learning, letting go and loving like there is no tomorrow...How can I not be in total amazement over what God has entrusted me with already!!!

The Last Time I Checked

2009-08-04T10:41:00.001-07:00

I am still the mommy, mom, or even the mother. I am pretty sure the legal age of relinquishing rights to your offspring is 18. I DO have the outwardly signs of a woman who has given birth, some that are to never be seen ever, even by me. You that have had 3 or more know exactly what I am speaking about. I have got the house with toys strewn all over the front yard, and on the inside toys busting at the seams, coloring books galore, scuff marks on the floors and walls, messy disheveled rooms, 10 mile high pile of laundry....Let's not forget to mention the "marks" here, there, and pretty much everywhere from stretching, pulling, sucking,tugging and the sleepless nights...

So, what am I getting at? This. I would not change any of the marks of motherhood and I am willing to take on more marks to protect my kids, my blessings,my right as a mom from the world trying to SEDUCE them into being years older than they should be! I refuse to give in or give up! What good am I if what I have seen did not change what I am doing? As the new school year approaches in 9 days and counting I pray these verses over all moms and dads.

Even though we speak like this, dear friends, we are confident of better things in your case-things that accompany salvation. God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you helped his people and continue to help them. We want each of you to show this same diligence to the very end, in order to make your hope sure. We do not want you to become lazy, but to imitate those who through faith and patience inherit what has been promised. Hebrews 6:9-12

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2

I am A Sappy Mom

2009-07-30T12:44:00.000-07:00

Mainly because God made me that way and some things pertaining to the matters of the heart cannot be changed. Hence this song, "Don't Blink", which gets me every time( I know...I am a cryer in my old-age) comes on. I turn it up and look over to see this and of course snap a candid moment between a brother and a sister.

As my days get harried, rushed and full to the point of exploding...I am thankful for gentle reminders from God that it's all worth it if I just take a moment to see through the eyes of my children's hearts that are so pure, so raw, and so me.

Two Sparrows in a Hurricane

2009-07-22T07:49:00.000-07:00

" Trying to find their way...

With a head full of dreams and a faith that can move anything
They've heard it's all uphill
But all they know is how they feel.

The world says they'll never make it.

LOVE says they will."

Happy 14th Anniversary to my friend, the one I laugh with, live for, dream with, LOVE.

May I have this dance with you forever!!!

Sights and Smells and Smiles...OH MY!

2009-07-17T08:00:00.000-07:00

How does one stay focused at a Nashville Sounds game?

When you've got Ozzie running around with signs like this?

Somehow...you all find your place, and kick up your heels...

Grab a bag of cotton candy...what ever happen to the BIG BLOB of cotton you'd get for like $2?

Some get their "rally cap" on...

Others of us feel right at home

And we smile when we are given a ball from the players on the field

Like I said...some of us feel right at home or is it we don't want to miss out on all the fun and try to hold "it"???

Because we certaintly have a lot to do

Before the Friday Night Fireworks

And the running of the bases occurs

And taking of the last minute pictures on the field where the Spirit of being an American happens...

And just one more picture before we leave to say...we had tons of fun and we can't wait for the next time we hear Batter Up!

How Will They Know?

2009-07-10T13:10:00.000-07:00

That is MY burning question...how will THEY-my children-KNOW there is more to life than what they can see?

I TELL them, I SHOW them and SHARE with them the good news of hope, faith and LOVE that is happening right next door. This is where I share with YOU, too-your help, your prayers and yes even your support is needed to get an orphanage up and running in Sierra Leone. Now that you know, they too will know they are not alone in this journey.

So, please take a minute to read a neighbor's journey outside their own family to follow their heart into an amazing and inspiring walk of faith, hope and love!

http://www.therainingseason.org

But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. Luke 6:49

Savoring Summer

2009-07-08T08:24:00.000-07:00

And Mary said:

"My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my

Savior,

for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant.

From now on all generations will call me blessed,

for the Mighty One has done great things for me-

holy is his name.

His mercy extends to those who fear him,

from generation to generation.

He has performed mighty deeds with his arm;

he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost

thoughts.

He has brought down the rulers from their thrones

but has lifted up the humble.

He has filled the hungry with good

things

but has sent the rich away empty.

He has helped his servant Israel,

remembering to be merciful

to Abraham and his descendants

forever,

even as he said to our fathers." Luke 1:46-56

This is my love song to Our Lord this summer....

Hope yours is just as sweet!

Is This Bad?

2009-06-29T20:23:00.000-07:00

It's about 10:20 PM on a Monday night, I am checking some emails for a a-----while....he's eating chips on top of the kitchen table and falls asleep right where you see him now. What's worse? The fact that it's 10:20 PM, the junk food so late at night, I am still on the computer posting this at 10:28 PM or that I am NOT ashamed to show that I am NOT so perfect?

Summer Snow

2009-06-26T06:54:00.000-07:00

Did you know that a sweet, adorable, lovable, tail-wagging chocolate lab named Rowdy could make Summer snow appear in your backyard?

Hmmmm.....

Yet....another day of Antics at the Applehouse!!!

There's Something About

2009-06-20T07:19:00.000-07:00

Keith.... that is way above and beyond his 35 years of life.

He is a man willing to travel to the ends of the Earth to spread God's word...

He is a hard working man....

A man that's not afraid to show love to his brothers...
He's a man who is in touch with his creative artsy side...

He's never too far for a hug for his son...

He's a man that is willing to risk his own life in the name of fun...

He's the kind of father that a kid can never get enough of...

He's the kind of friend that would do anything for you even before you ask him to...

And, if you are at a party, chances are you will find him close to the grill ready to assist and add just the right amount of spice...

Let's not forget, he has a special gift of making you smile and laugh so hard you cry and your stomach muscles feel like they've been to boot camp and back....

And he is a man who uses his resources wisely and isn't afraid to wear his heart on his sleeve to show the whole world who he really is...a man of integrity, perseverance, faith, hope and love.

And the best part about this man...Keith....is he is mine...all mine!!!
I am hopelessly in love with you and I wish you a Happy 35th Birthday!!!!

Yesterday

2009-06-17T06:50:00.000-07:00

This baby girl who came into our lives 7 years ago is no longer this little

or this little...

or even this little...

SHE is now officially this little and where does she want to go to celebrate her

7th bday???

Where we meet up with MomMom who once had a little 7 year old

Who now has a little 7 year old herself

And of course we can't forget the rest of the gang who came to hang

And sing the song at the best cupcake shop ever...

Happy Birthday Dear Mia...We wish you another year of big and little blessings.

Love, Your Family

The Difference

2009-06-15T11:38:00.000-07:00

Since I've been back???? Is that I am refusing to be a part of the hurrying around like a mad woman...with excuse me for saying this..."having her panties in a wad"! Now...I am not saying "she" won't rear her ugly head come end of summer and beginning of fall as soon as school schedules, Fall ball, Brownies, Wed. night church, and the much needed bedtime routine resumes and sets in. It just means for now...as I have been given new eyes and Praise God for His mercies are new each day. I am excited to see with 20/20 vision as to what needs to be done and what needs to be done with....So far this is who, what,when, where and why. Intentionally seeking out the blessings in each day from sun up to sun down and only with His strength and His people He surrounds me with. And the cost...is MAKING TIME...which in the end is PRICELESS...

A Third World Country to Many, BUT...

2009-06-10T08:04:00.001-07:00

To me...my world forever.

No word, picture, story, song or label will ever be able to describe the troubled heart I hold in my hands over my second visit to the country of Nicaragua. I say this because each time I tell someone about my experience something different comes to mind about the same story. So, with that being said, I will do my best to stay focused in this post. If I sound a bit all over the place, it is because I am all over the place in my thoughts and actions. I might even look comatose, numb or dazed and confused. Really....I am a dam full of tears for those in homes wrapped in plastic that cry out faithfully to our God, hurt over knowing I am not staying there long enough, laughter over lost luggage, sadness over being homesick for both countries, fear for what happens when night falls and many have no electricity or locks on their homes, love over friendships made amongst the mission team, voices waiting to be heard, families needing a tin roof over their head, homes full of joy over finally having one bed for a family of 4 or more to sleep on together, moms needing milk to feed their newborn babies, prayers for children who need well check-ups, songs being sung without sound checks, hugs that felt like home, churches praying for their barrios to be united together with God, and the beautiful faces of Nicaragua anxiously awaiting to hear why God would place them there... FOR ME to hear...once our eyes are opened we can't pretend we don't know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls knows that we know, and holds us responsible to act. Proverbs 24:12 are just droplets of what is ready to burst open into a flood of passionate prayer-filled works of action both here at home in America and for my home in Nicaragua.

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So, now that you know I am here physically, emotionally and spiritually, I AM A MESS, but praise God I am His Mess waiting to be used for His purpose, not my own. "Thank you " is not enough to say to the many supporters, prayers, encouragers and even to the ones who couldn't understand why I would take such a risk, which would be more of a risk to my salvation if I didn't, along the way, but please accept my many many thank yous, for without your love and your fears I would have not been able to live out Romans 10:14-15 for the second time in less than a year... How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can they preach unless they are sent? As it is written, "How beautiful are the feet of those who bring the good news!" I am forever indebted to God's People.

More than JUST IMAGES on TV

2009-06-08T08:18:00.000-07:00

Before I BLAST a blog post with hundreds of pictures from our mission trip to Nicaragua, I wanted to share some REAL LIVE sights and sounds from this beautiful land only our awesome GOD could have created and called us-Keith, I and the 10 others from our church to go to share HIS love with...

And to also share with you all that they...the Nicaraguans... are more than just "images" you see on TV...they live, laugh and love just the same as we do here in America minus the "distractions" of our everyday hustle and bustle of life.

Hope you take a minute to truly understand they only want to hear and be heard...

The Good Stuff

2009-05-26T06:50:00.001-07:00

So... my house needs a good deep cleaning or more like a serious pressure washing, yes on the inside, my yard needs a good mowing, weeding, and fertilizing, and I need a good night's sleep or even a good afternoon nap uninterrupted would be nice! However, if all I did was housework, yard work, and taking care of my lack of sleep then I would miss out on the GOOD STUFF called making memories with friends and family every now and then!!!

SO here's to the "GOOD STUFF"

(And all of this is only in one holiday weekend ...)

Now....back to reality and the extra housework, yard work, and lack of sleep was all worth waiting to get to as I look back at the memories that are forever remembered in the hearts that shared time together!!!!

What IF?

2009-05-22T00:16:00.001-07:00

What if everyone could see your "skeletons?" What if they were to meet? What would they say? What if they knew how dark your heart really was? Would we... would I just stay in the closet?
Oh...how easy would that be? To never hurt or be hurt again! So, here I am to let me be exposed to what if...

Saturday's Sadness

2009-05-16T00:59:00.000-07:00

It's not the sadness you would think. It's more of the kind of sadness that sinks way deep down into the depths of your heart in as this is MY reality of this being my last Saturday to have a 4th grader, a 1st grader, and a 1st time Mother's Day out 3 year old. Why is this soooo darn stinkin sad? Because that's one year closer to MY offspring being too big to NEED me to hold them, help them find their forever missing socks, fix their lunches, ask them to pick up after themselves for the 100th time, kiss their boo-boos or never being able to answer their long exhausting list of questions. I know...I should be a hoopin' and a hollering and jumping for joy and B-E-L-I-E-V-E me there are days...However, today is NOT one of them! So...excuse me in advance if you happen to see me this week and I look like a big FAT cry baby, or if I start tearing up in the middle of a conversation with you...it's just that time of year that comes every year where I have to let go of a little bit more of a piece of my heart and oh how sweet it is that God gave me these hearts to give back to Him for ...There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under heaven. I know that everything that God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that men will revere him. Ecclesiastes 3:1,14...

Fireproof-I-N-G

2009-05-11T07:01:00.001-07:00

Since July 1992.

And it is May 2009, Mother's Day weekend, and he... my lifelong partner takes me on a date night because he knows "you can take the girl out of the country western dance club, BUT you cannot take the dance out of the girl."

Since I couldn't be There...

2009-05-08T13:13:00.000-07:00

For Mia's Mother's Day Brunch this morning....she sent me a special message via email!

And YES...I am crying right now as I see how blessed I am to be her mother!!!

A Special Message

2009-05-08T07:54:00.000-07:00

From the Friends at Ms.Betty's...

With LOVE!!!!

This Applies to Mothers, too...

2009-05-07T08:57:00.000-07:00

So...he's all of 3 year's old, but so thinks he is 33 year's old.

This is his "I CAN DO IT MYSELF, MOMMY" after going potty...

Well...he might bring back tucking in shirts back in style, or even opposite day back everyday if I continue to let him "do it himself", which is sometimes...OK a LOT of the times a major pain in the you know what, time consuming and just plain frustrating especially when you have a gazillion other things you just have to get to!

However, I realized at least at this proud moment of my one and only precious son's life, that this was so God's way of giving us a moment to experience HIS love and HIS patience in all things...

Which of course led me to these verses:

Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4

and

Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. Colossians 3:21

Wednesday's Word

2009-05-06T12:09:00.000-07:00

I can do everything through him, who gives me strength.

Philippians 4:13

Hair, Hair, Go Away

2009-05-04T08:40:00.000-07:00

Come again another day....

So...I can see my friend Ms. Angela to do it all over again!!!

P.S. Thank you, Ms.Angela for making me look so beautiful...you're the best!

P.S.S. Look at how grown-up my baby girl looks??? Boo-hoo-hoo....

Here's to ALL My Girlfriends...

2009-05-01T12:08:00.000-07:00

To my girlfriends that attended our church's annual You're a Doll Banquet last night, to my girlfriends from childhood that I have no idea where you are now, to the ones from childhood that I should keep in better touch with today, to the ones from college years that know things about me that no other person now would believe I ever did, to the ones that stuck around after having babies, to the ones that understand he(our husbands) come first, to the ones that never give up on one another through times of hurt or of hurting one another, to the ones that truly forgive, stretch themselves too thin and take on the impossible for you, that love deeply, and know that there is HOPE... Hope in knowing God loves us the MOST and that is what keeps us TOGETHER no matter where we are in life...

Now...these are just a few of my most favorite girlfriends from last night's girl's night out at church. So...know I LOVE YOU ALL and I cannot express it enough through words or actions alone, but I HOPE you do know the gift of all your friendships are among my greatest and most precious treasures!

Love,

Betty

My Heart was Heavy

2009-04-30T08:54:00.000-07:00

Then I looked out at God's creation and saw this...

and in that moment I couldn't help but laugh out loud and just smile from ear to ear as I felt His presence and praise HIM for

HE says..

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls, For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

Matthew 11:28-30

Who's Got Game?

2009-04-28T07:35:00.000-07:00

At last night's ball game, our Rylee had her head in the game and was awarded the...

GAME BALL
Another proud and exciting moment for us at the Applehouse that we can't help but show off!!!

Oh and one more proud moment...she was also asked to fill in this Friday for another team that plays FAST PITCH games....she's already being "SCOUTED"!!!

How cool is that!!!!

Worth The Whack on my Back

2009-04-24T07:31:00.000-07:00

Who knew 8, 9 and 10 year old GIRLS could hit a foul ball over the fence at about 65 MPH?

Well, they can and my swelled up lower back is proof of it.

There is really no better way to describe the moment except for fast, furious and all surreal!

I think it hurt everybody else at the game a little bit more than me as they had to witness it all happen in S-L-O-W motion effect...you know like there's really nothing you could do, but scream "LOOK OUT FOR THE BALL!!" and watch it all take place as it may!

But...it was well worth it for I used my back to protect my boy from getting whacked in the face and I'd do it again to have been able to capture these priceless videos of my First Born daughter whack a few balls of her own!

Way to go SLUGGER!

We are proud of you!!!

LOVE,

Mommy, Daddy, Mia

AND

Nico(who apparently was worn out after all the events that took place, thank you God for protecting that sweet angelic face!!!)

Before I Forget...

2009-04-17T09:41:00.000-07:00

I wanted to say I LOVE YOU to a few important people!

It's not their birthday, Easter just passed, and there is no other particular reason for this post except to take advantage of the present and to be thankful for my gifts!

Dear Rylee,

Thank you for still wanting hugs from me, for wanting to hang out with me, for NOT wanting to go to all the lighthouses in NC or the Wright Brothers Memorial but coming home from school with a book about all the places we visited, for being brave enough to go to CrossCamp for a week but still wanting to call me every night to say "good night mommy." And these are just a few of the things that I am thankful for and savor each passing day....

Dear Mia,

Oh where do I even begin? Thank you for the HARD questions you challenge me with every day. Thank you for always wanting to play with me. Thank you for always thinking of others and wanting it to always be fair and square! You make me want to be a kid again and to do it with spunkiness and class all in one. Now, these are just a few of my favorite things...

Dear Nico,

You are growing so fast and furious that most days I forget...you are the BABY!

I can't get over how fearless, how handsome and loving you are! You can turn any room into a celebration of love, life and happiness whether you are with 100 people or all by yourself!

So many more moments of joy to come...

Dear Keith,

None of this could ever happen without YOU and YOUR LOVE for ME!!!

You are the reason for my many blessings of pure joy and happiness. Thank you for believing in me when I didn't believe in me, for smiling that smile when I come up with crazy off-the-wall ideas, for late night talks of dreams that are yet to come, for taking on the role of my husband, best friend, and love of my life with true unconditional love!!!

Love,

Mommy and Wife

Fast as LIGHTNING

2009-04-15T12:26:00.000-07:00

Not even cold, cold, did I already mention COLD windy conditions stop us from missing this legendary moment!

THESE are all SEPARATE VIDEO CLIPS of Mia's ball game last night.

Mia's RUSHING the BALL as her BIG SIS' would call it!

Can we say...he is one proud dad!

Again...we have have ONE PROUD DAD in the APPLEHOUSE that can't seem to stop stealing photo opps with his baby girl and the GAME BALL!

Way to go Mia!!!

We are PROUD of YOU...OUR little MVP!!!

Love,

Mom, Dad, Rylee, & Nico

Do You Believe in Fairy Tales?

2009-04-13T08:08:00.000-07:00

I DO!

Come and experience a magical, whimsical, romantic evening of a prince and a princess' beginning of a happily ever after....

In case you are still crying and missed it...she said "YES!!!"

To marrying him TONIGHT on EASTER SUNDAY in the most beautiful castle of a house ever!

Of course she must take a moment to show off her engagement ring before the
"I DOs"...

Ohhh...the love in the air was so breathtaking...

Her Prince took care of all the important details like having her dream dress along with matching shoes ready in her dressing room.

And then she asks "what about the cake?"

Little did she know...she made the cake!

And her HAIR???

Even that was covered with her hair dresser of 10 years ready and waiting to make it all happen!!

What a clever man she is about to marry!

The blushing bride must take some priceless photos while anxiously awaiting to see her handsome prince in just moments....

A wedding is NEVER complete without a few minor dress mishaps that a former beauty pageant contestant was able to fix in no time!!!

Here she is just seconds away from being Mrs. Ivey Childers!

I being the big sis' stole a moment only between us to tell her how she is the most beautiful bride I have ever seen and that I am so honored and proud to be a part of her love story in the making!!!

After the exchanging of the vows...the tears of joy still flow and the celebration begins!!

Like I said...this is only the beginning and what a timeless piece of history that will be forever cherished and told to many for generations to come!

Mark...we loved you from the beginning as we saw how you captured Ivey's heart in a way no other man could or ever would! You made me BELIEVE again in Cinderella fairy tales come true!

Love to you both as you make a lifetime of beautiful memories together!!!

Friday's Forecast

2009-04-10T17:11:00.000-07:00

"Friendly" Firearms...

Fortresses...
Fancy Footwork...

Fresh From The Sea Fan Mail...

Finding Furry Fun...

Filling Food, Food, Food...

Forever Family Fotos...

Thursday's Temps...

2009-04-09T18:32:00.000-07:00

Smiles, Sandcastles, Silliness, Seashells,SUNSHINE,

and

Sweet Slumber!!!

55 degrees and 30 MPH winds

2009-04-08T15:59:00.000-07:00

Will NOT, I repeat NOT stop the Apples from having the BEST Family vacation EVER!!!

Just check out what Mia can do on the Sand Dunes in Nags Head, NC....

Now...this is what I would call SERIOUS boot camp like training....

YESSSS....it is so MUCH FUN no matter how cold or windy it is!!!

After hours of sand surfing, we take a little slower pace and do some sight seeing.

The "nerdy" history lover in me comes out and the rest of the family partake even though they would rather NOT...thank you kids and hubby for filling my "cup"!!!

I LOVE, LOVE. LOVE lighthouses and the Outer Banks have them EVERYWHERE!!!
Along with the famous Wright Brothers Memorial.

Oh...I can not get enough of the lighthouses and what a beautiful day to visit them!

To take a break from all the driving...we stop and enjoy the waters of Pea Island...note it really is 55 degrees on the mainland which means it probably is about 35 degrees near the water. However, it is not stopping the boy and his dog from soaking it all in!

Mommy is not so much into getting in the water, but I will take a photo with the boy as the sun is setting, the wind is fierce, and the temps are dropping!

To end our day...we hit one last lighthouse just for ME!!!

Ohhhh...I can NOT wait to see what tomorrow brings!!!!

Thank you GOD for giving us this TIME together and it is only Wednesday!!!

Tornado Warnings Call For...

2009-04-06T19:48:00.000-07:00

A trip to the Aquarium, where we meet alligators and...

One of the biggest, scariest fish of the sea.

But, no visit is quite complete without stopping to pet the stingrays who are close cousins of SHARKS...hello??? Who thought this would be FUN?

Well...these two gals are braver than their mom!

After this great adventure, we take no heed of bad weather warnings as you can see from the dark looming cloud above this historic lighthouse in Roanoke Island, NC.

Thankfully, the tornado warning lifts and the sun peeks in and out throughout the day and we are able to stroll the boardwalk, have coffee, get hopped up on sugary treats and browse the shops of historic downtown Roanoke Island, NC.

It's only Monday...so look for more adventures from the Outerbanks with the Apples!

We hope you all are taking time to stop and enjoy the day no matter what the day brings!!!

The Littlest Apple

2009-04-05T20:35:00.000-07:00

Isn't so little anymore (boo-hoo-hoo) because he turned 3 year's old today while at the beaches of the Outer Banks of North Carolina with his family who absolutely love and adore him !!!

We hope you had a happy birthday and we wish you many more days like these...

Wednesday's Wish

2009-04-01T09:43:00.000-07:00

If ONLY they could stay THIS little...

This is Mia at about 11 months old watching her daddy play ball.

Now here she is with her big sis' proudly displaying their APPLE softball jerseys.

My wish and prayer is that they always SMILE!!

And Know they are LOVED...

I pray that your love for each other will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in your knowledge and understanding.

Philippians 1:9 NLT

Yes WE ARE...

2009-03-29T22:49:00.000-07:00

SHOWING OFF and SHOWING SOME LOVE!!!

For Our Friends Elmira and Steve Burke

P.S. You and your family could look THIS cool, too!!!

Find out how by visiting http://www.ourlongawaitedchild.blogspot.com/ and/or ME

And I will glady get you one of these awesome t-shirts that will help get baby Kaiyin home to her MOMMY and DADDY!

P.S.S. This is JD Smith who will be one of the performers at THE BURKES benefit concert singing our Sunday Night Theme Song with our beautiful children!!!

They are pretty darn good performers...so don't miss out on the concert of the year!

Call up all your bestest friends and make it an outing to remember!!!

Hope to see you there!!!

All for Under $20

2009-03-27T07:45:00.000-07:00

The boy gets a quick snooze in at dinner...

We eat enough pizza from the local pizza joint in town to feed an ARMY...

O.K. ...AND

then some...

We take the dogs for a family walk...

The dog takes the boy for a ride...

Now...don't go judging and calling the Humane Society or Child Protective Services...you have thought of doing things like this at least once or twice...

All in all...It was a GREAT DAY full of food, fun and family

Applehouse95 style!

A Dog's Life

2009-03-26T08:16:00.000-07:00

Matthew's Take on Ms.Betty's

2009-03-25T07:08:00.000-07:00

Cheese

2009-03-24T09:49:00.000-07:00

Show Some Love

2009-03-20T12:48:00.000-07:00

Dear Friends and Family,

I wanted to share some good news!!! One of our dearest and much cherished friends whom we have grown to love as much as FAMILY are in the process of adopting their long awaited baby girl from Ethiopia. And as most of you know it is a very expensive process, BUT well worth it all!!!

I am excited to share some ways we can be a big part of their journey to bring their daughter Kaiyin, which means long awaited child, HOME!!! One is purchasing the t-shirt below which was designed by Kaiyin's uncle and will be printed by The Carpenters' Press(Chris Carpenter). Another way to leave a piece of your heart in her journey home is purchasing tickets to her benefit concert where one of the performers will be our closest friend JD Smith amongst many other talents. These are just a few ways you can SHOW SOME LOVE!

Please feel free to visit The Burkes at http://www.ourlongawaitedchild.blogspot.com/ to read their story,purchase this awesome shirt, or benefit concert tickets and find out more ways you can help!!! I can't wait to meet Kaiyin and tell her how much she is loved by all!

Love,
Betty

Garage Sale Success

2009-03-07T17:38:00.000-08:00

Just wanted to take a moment and say THANK YOU to ALL that graciously donated items to our garage sale fundraiser!!! We had an awesome turnout, the weather was perfect and we were able to share our testimony, even meet other missionaries, and all were truly blessed from this event. Nobody left "empty-handed"!!!

Oh....and the grand total raised was $601.70. 100% of the proceeds will go directly to the mission trip fund which has now doubled since MY HUSBAND Keith is now a part of our team!!!
So...please pray for his heart as he prepares to go on a trip that truly will change his life!!!

Again thank you for being an important part of our journey!!!

Love,
Betty

Favorite Fotos(Plural) Friday

2009-03-06T10:36:00.000-08:00

Meet Rowdy

2009-02-26T08:32:00.001-08:00

The Newest Member of Applehouse95

As you can see he is already feeling quite at home....

Every puppy needs his exercise....

I smell TROUBLE with these two...
Hmmm.....

Welcome home Rowdy!!!

Sentimental Saturday

2009-02-21T09:12:00.000-08:00

Now...it is still "LOVE" month in my book...so I thought I'd share and give some ideas to you in case you were running out of creative ones on how to express your "Love"

Is it just me?

2009-02-19T22:13:00.000-08:00

Or are these babes really really T-I-R-E-D???

Ask,Seek, Knock

2009-02-17T09:14:00.001-08:00

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 6:7,12

This is exactly what I did and with me getting over myself being fearful of asking... your help, your prayers, your encouragement and your belief in HIM and my desire to spread HIS LOVE... my first "fundraiser/garage sale" to get me BACK to Nicaragua has already had an overwhelming positive response!!!!

PRAISE JESUS and THANK YOU for committing to be a part of my JOURNEY!!!

For those that want to know...here's the skinny of what my 1st fundraising idea is:

It's a a GARAGE SALE!!!

Everyone loves a Good Old Fashioned Garage Sale!!!

I am asking to help you out with Spring Cleaning by accepting your gently used belongings that you no longer want and I will be happy to find them a new "home" and in all this giving, sharing, and raising funds, we all are spreading GOD's LOVE in so many ways here in our little hometown in "Mayberry USA"!!!! How exciting is that!!! Everyone wins!!!

So...if you happen to live nearby me and have not received my request via email...you are so welome to take part in this event if you have some "stuff" you would like to see make another family happy!!!

Much Much LOVE,

Betty

Remember..."IT"?

2009-02-15T20:06:00.000-08:00

The burning question...IT. What is IT that keeps me from doing what God clearly tells me to do?

FEAR-the butterflies in my stomach-the "oh-no" she might need something from me dilemma-the hate to ask because I know you are busy, you are very busy, you don't even know who I am-that's just too much for me to dive into right now-the possibility of rejection-ugh!!!

BUT... the WORST is knowing what will happen if I DON'T listen to God's command to share what truly matters most to HIM...

SO, hear it is me opening up, being vulnerable, exposing a little bit more of my heart and asking you to be a part of my journey BACK to NICARAGUA. YES...that means YOU!!!

I hope that those who read my blog know or have gathered that I don't have IT all together.No big surprise there, just wanted to clear the air.

However, I do know, I do believe God sent me to Nicaragua back In October of 2008 for a reason... to prick my heart ever so gently so that I would NOT forget His children both big and small there as I re-entered my much blessed life here with its many responsiblities, obligations, duties, and even sweet distractions. And you guessed IT.. He is calling me to GO in May of 2009.
Sounds simple enough...right...just GO Betty...what is IT that you need from ME???

I simply NEED your LOVING PRAYERS, CREATIVE IDEAS to raise support, AND EVEN YOUR BLESSING to once again leave my most priceless, precious treasures behind, take up my cross God has given me to share HIS love to the country of Nicaragua.

Oh and one last specific prayer request from His word:

Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given to me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should. Ephesians 6:19-20

Love,
Betty

My Culinary Artist

2009-02-12T11:00:00.000-08:00

I can't help but brag just a little, share a glimpse of my sweet life and show off his (my husband's) latest creation of love especially since this is Valentine's week.

He truly is the epitome of Ephesians 6:25-26,28-29

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by washing with water through the word... In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church-

Hair Today Gone Tomorrow

2009-02-10T08:14:00.000-08:00

The "Before" Shot

The "After" Shot

The "Style" Shot.

Really...how many 2 year old boys are blow drying their hair these days?

The "I really am a boy" shot!

Blogger Betty's Back

2009-02-07T20:57:00.000-08:00

So it's been a while since I last blogged and the reason is that I have had nothing....yes nothing.

Until now when I remembered I recorded a video back in January on Saturday the 3rd, 2009 on our car ride to see Marly and Me.

And to many this video has no true meaning to you because they are not your kids for one, it's not one of those funny fall on the floor videos for two, and for three it's just one of those only a mom behind the camera understands because it's seen through her eyes,her experiences,her heart,her love.

What made me remember this particular video is today Keith took me and the kids to see a 3 week old chocolate lab puppy and he asks me "do you want him?" I mean...what kind of question is that? You take me to see a puppy and ask do I want him? Well...of course I do, who wouldn't want a cute cuddly adorable roly poly puppy??? That is besides the point...it is also exactly one month since Tucker my beloved chocolate lab passed away and I saw him again today in the eyes of this new puppy's daddy named Rocky. As the flood gates of tears opened and streamed down my face I finally felt the peace my heart has been longing for. And watching my children's faces light up with joy, excitement and giddy knowing we would bring this puppy home as soon as he was weaned from his mommy brought on even more tears of "oh no" that really means I get to be the one to do all the "dirty work" of a brand new lab puppy. No...really it means our family is getting to experience what love is...

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it
is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes,always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

And my hope of this new found love is that I never forget how much room there is in one's heart to continue to add just one more and then some and... how it really is ok to let go, dance, sing and praise Him in everything.

I smell Spring and...

2009-02-01T20:18:00.000-08:00

Softball season coming and what a better way to spend the day than with your family at the park playing some ball

and soaking in some sunshine and smiles!!!

Never FEAR

2009-01-29T06:39:00.001-08:00

"Super-Dishwasher-Boy"
is

ALWAYS NEAR...

To Do A

NORMAL CYCLE of:

"TODDLERS GONE WILD"

THEN Per HIS "SUPER POWERS" EXTRA HEAVY LOADS

RINSE & REPEAT!

Finding Cheryl

2009-01-27T07:19:00.001-08:00

a.k.a.:

Wife and Friend to Eddie, Mom to Keith, Granapple to Rylee, Mia & Nico

and an Inspiration to many as she

RUNS her Heart OUT

For the first time ever in Nashville, TN at the Country Music Marathon:

Here she is seen running the Half-Marathon

Later we find her running yet another half-marathon back home in TX which I do not have pictures of but did not want to leave out this bit of information.

BECAUSE soon after she is FOUND COMPLETING the BIG 26.2 Mile run in the Houston Marathon

AND

All of this started with a decision to step out of her "comfort zone" and a determination to stretch herself a little bit more each day to find herself doing SOMETHING AMAZING and BELIEVING

"I can do everything through HIM who gives me strength." Philippians 4:13

and KNOWING no matter how tough it might get

"those who hope in the Lord will renew their stength.They will soar on wings like eagles;they will run and not grow weary..." Isaiah 40:31

We are proud of you!

Love,

Applehouse95

WHAT...what is IT?

2009-01-24T13:38:00.000-08:00

About WHO you are and who you really want to be keeps you from being?

And WHY the older you get the harder you try to hide behind yourself?

And WHEN do you just spill it all, tell your deepest darkest thoughts for all the world to see?

And WHERE do you go from there?

Ok...sounds a bit loony, off the wall, plain coo-coo... AND you didn't realize I was so tormented with my own thoughts....you thought I was a well-rounded, has her head together kind of girl. Well...here I AM...telling you that I DON'T.

It is all one BIG FAT BETTY MARTIN BARREDA APPLE SHOW which I hope will not be cancelled but will broadcast live and in living color at a life time station near you.

Here's where it all began...I have always held on to my youth for as long as I could...you know the youth that thought she could "save the world, the whales, the dogs", the youth that knew she would "be somebody" some day, she would make a "difference", change the world, join a cause, burn the bras, be better off than the last generation, stop the prejudices, then...as I grew older into my youthful like thinking...I still held on to that "hippie", see the world through "rose-colored glasses" naive everybody is good, there are no true bad people out there bohemian outlook. Then the day came...I met me, myself and I realized I am the bad people, I am the one who needs to change and so here I AM left with the daunting task of finding who I am to be.

And during my so called life-interrupted I have run across a quote that sums it up quite nicely:

"This is the only leadership life I get, my one and only shot at following God the way I feel him prompting me to do so."

Bill Hybels Axiom

And here were two questions that followed

1. Am I following God and leading in the way He is prompting me?

2. Or AM I caught up in my own plans to see where He is leading?

He can even use your family cat

2009-01-21T11:29:00.000-08:00

To teach you...I mean...ME...to RELAX a little, ENJOY life a little, and most importantly

NOT TO WORRY

"Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?...So do not worry, saying 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your Heavenly Father knows that you need them....But seek first His kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6:27, 31-34

We are....

2009-01-19T09:14:00.000-08:00

That "Family"...in the neighborhood:
Note: This is really happening

and

it really is January 19,2009

YES....the "one family" that always keeps the neighbors talking about the loud music, the "one" with the "only" cat that keeps getting into your yard, the "one" only ever whose dogs escape from the backyard and poop in your yard, the "one" family that gets their truck in the paper twice...yes twice as an example for a law that MIGHT go into effect for parking on a street that is too narrow, the "one" that for sure will get a 10 page notice that our tags have expired in April and it is May 1st, the one whose yard might be a half inch taller than the next because of that one weed, but will for sure get a "courtesy warning" to mow it or else, and the examples go on and on...

I am here to admit...I am NOT ashamed of giving people something to talk about...if it keeps them from thinking they have it bad...then I am more than happy to take that from them!

WHY? Because Jesus said so and I found the proof in The Bible...

"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no commandment greater than these." Mark 12:30-31

I Found THIS:

2009-01-15T08:12:00.001-08:00

And I wanted to SHARE:

I know it is just another one of those sayings we read and it goes in one ear and out the other.

I know I should be focusing more on God's word and pondering on that...

However, for some reason I can't help but really stop and ponder...yes I said ponder on this particular quote I ran across while spending too much time on the computer. That's yet another post for another day.

I'd like to know your thoughts on this. What do we gather? What do we scatter?

Is it bad to gather? Gather knowledge, information, pictures, money, clothes, friends, etc...

How do we scatter without feeling "scattered?" I'd like to think scattering my thoughts, my heart, my feelings, my life is reflective of how I live my life.

All in all...I know my life is short, yet long enough to where I will continue to "gather and scatter". I just hope it, my life, is full of more revelations of who God wants me to be whether the day is good, bad or extremely ugly.

This is for...KYLA

2009-01-14T07:55:00.000-08:00

Here it is... the 4th folder...the 4th picture:

NOW...didn't I tell you? You have PROBABLY already seen it! I am not one to keep photos hidden and put away ever so neat and tidy like. What is the point of taking pictures? The point is to show them off!!!

I am pretty sure this one has been seen by many since it is on the bottom of my blog flashing on the movie screen!

But...rules are rules and yes I am a rule follower most days....

Now what is going on in this pic?

Hmmm...it looks like Keith is with a couple of "Charlie's Angels"if you want my version...

BUT what really makes this picture even more special is it was just a spur of the moment Saturday afternoon "let's get together, have a picnic, listen to some live music, meet at Arrington Vineyards" AND we stayed ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT to be exact from 2:00PM-9:00PM and the kids had a blast just hanging out, playing, laughing, and dancing!!! It was a PERFECT windy, sunshiny, no toys, no computers, no cell phones, no Wiis, or Nintendo DS, kinda day!!!

THEY STILL TALK ABOUT THAT DAY and ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD TO GOING BACK!

I'm Making up my Own Rules

2009-01-12T11:16:00.000-08:00

For this TAGGING game.

Mainly because I have been tagged twice, forgot the rules, and I just like to make up my own!

So....I am picking a picture I like and you have actually NOT seen which would be amazing since if you know anything about me by NOW I pretty much blast my blog, my home, my life with pictures galore!!! And friends and family both love and hate that about me...I am OK with that!

OoooooK....Here it goes...MY RULES....my favorite pic of the day and WHY?

Anyone can see WHY...she's just SOOOO PERFECT!

This is my Mia Apple, our second born, sitting pretty back out our first home in TX just being PERFECT and this was BEFORE DIGITAL or should I say... before I went digital and it came out PERFECT!!!

Oh...the days when you had to wait to see what your pictures looked like, actually got them developed, and then SURPRISE!!! They turned out just right, just like they were suppose to...without touch-ups, red-eye reduction, or having to delete, and re-take.

Well...enough about how old I am getting!!! Now...I think I am suppose to tag others, but I am pretty sure everyone has already been tagged. Looks like you all are OFF THE HOOK!!!

As Much as It Still Hurts...

2009-01-09T09:50:00.000-08:00

The sadness, the anger, the tears that come each morning as I wake up facing the reality of Tucker not waiting at the back door for me to feed, love on and play a round of fetch with is slowly and I do mean slowly being covered with fond memories and sounds of laughter, love, and barking washing over my heart.

Who knew such a creature as a messy, slobbery,shedding, rambunctious,bark-until-you-wake the-neighbors-up, tail-wagging, loyal-faithful dog could make a lasting unbreakable, unexplainable bond of friendship that would later break your heart into a million pieces. Fortunately for me...I did.

So...this is where the story does not end, but only gets sweeter as I savor the lessons learned from heartbreak and hopefully pass on that love by living life for what matters most.

Falling in love knowing your heart will be full of joy, happiness, pain, sadness and eventually loss and doing that over and over until your last breath.

What HURTS my HEART the MOST

2009-01-07T10:08:00.000-08:00

Is that TUCKER, my best friend of 12 1/2 years, gave me the "look" that said it all.

The look that said "I know...I will miss you,too!"" But...it will be ok Betty and I will be in a better place." Our last night together was both tear-filled and joyful. He and I both knew this was what would make him live forever in endless trips to the lake, the beach,the park, camping, and playing catch all the day long with all his best pals without fences, dog collars or leashes.

Though I am hurting terribly and feeling as if my heart has been ripped from me, I am also smiling knowing that Tucker, my big brown slobbery gave the best hugs and kisses ever dog is barking up a storm and causing much havoc up in doggy heaven just as he did with us at the Apple House. It will never be the same without him!

WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!!

I had "THE TALK" with my girls

2009-01-06T07:46:00.001-08:00

ABOUT MANNERS, PRIVILEGES, and CONSEQUENCES

AND.... If they DON'T STRAIGHTEN UP in ONE WEEK:

IT'S OFF TO MANNER'S BOOT CAMP for the NEXT 6 SATURDAYS

FROM 8AM to 5PM!

Now...this boot camp is real. I did not make it up. The girls wear a skirt,a dress shirt or a dress, hose, and dress shoes and the boys wear dress pants, white long-sleeved shirts, a tie, and dress shoes ALL DAY LONG.

And ALL DAY LONG...they are taught life-lessons on appropriate behavior, dress, talk, manners and I am thinking maybe I should go, too.

Anyways, back to...

What made me wig out?

Was it the "I am gonna tell on you", the constant complaining about this or that, the "you always say NO mommy", the "I don't want to brush my teeth",the "well, so and so has one", "DO I have to?", the interruptions while on the phone,the rolling of the eyes, the hands on the hips, the "I never get to do that"....Ok you get my point! I am sure you have about 300 more quotes to add to the list!

SO...I probably won't be sending them to BOOT CAMP, but it sure made them be EXTRA NICE to Me this morning. Now...I just need to come up with something else for the next time I have had enough, which will probably be by the end of the day.

In the meantime, I will just enjoy the PRIVILEGE of this challenge of being a parent to 3 crazy, lovable, huggable, beautiful children. How boring would life be if everything went exactly the way I wanted it to?

If you don't already know me by now...I LOVE ME a GOOD, CLEAN,CUT-THROAT, I MEAN WHOLESOME FAIR AND SQUARE CHALLENGE!!!

What makes us Fall in Love?

2009-01-04T01:12:00.000-08:00

With a Dog?

I ask this question after seeing the movie Marley and Me. This movie came out just at the right time or should I really say...the "right wrong time" if that can make any sense to anyone, but me.

You see...I am in love with my big brown dog named Tucker. He had no choice but to be in love with me back and now he is breaking my heart. He is reaching that "age"...and he is not well...and I am pretending, hoping, reaching for anything to make him that soft, cuddly, slobbery, take up half the bed, play catch with me forever, even chew up my favorite shoes,and dig up my flower garden for the one-hundreth-millioneth time or scratch up the back door for that matter Tucker again. And him being the loyal, loving friend he is...is trying to do all of that for me and more. That is what makes me love him even more and that is what makes me want to know what makes us fall in love with a dog knowing all of this is a possibility?

When it's the end...

2008-12-31T16:28:00.000-08:00

Of the Year 2008 you load up the kids and a friend...

To REALLY end the year with a BANG and you BLOW IT ALL OUT!!!

With some yummy treats and where else do you go?

Why of course...that's right...

And who do we find there?

Oh...what a treat... Ivey's boyfriend Mark is there visiting her

Oh no...he's NOT visiting..he IS working...

With a smile that is... as he is doing a fantastic job

keeping up with the children's request for their tasty year end treats...

Now Connor is not sure if he should go for the STARS or the one Rylee insists is best??? Too many delicious choices...

Hmmm...I really would like a bite of all of them he's thinking!

Looks like these Apples are pretty happy with their choices

Connor has to make a call to mom and dad and let them know this is definitely the place to go in the year 2009!!!

Sad to go...but all good things must come to an end

So...until next year...we will just go on home and rock out the night in our Spidey suit and play it safe with some Rock Guitar Hero!

You can never go wrong when you spend the last day of the year like a Rock Star!!!

We wish everyone a blessed 2009

with many days filled with

peace, joy ,love, happiness

and of course many visits from

all your most favorite loved ones!!!

Disappointment

2008-12-28T22:47:00.000-08:00

Is it because I had already convinced myself? I just knew it was going to happen! The dates, times, and calculations all added up. I just knew it was my time to make plans...until today.

When my plan... was not HIS plan.

You are probably wondering what? What plan? Well...to many of you you might be thinking...really? When will you ever come to peace with this? When will it ever be enough?
It really is not the end of the world. So...here it is...the disappointment...I am NOT pregnant.

Ok...shocking news to many as so many wonder will those Apples have another child? Really...do they need another Apple? Need, want, desire or yearn for one is all a matter of one's heart in this matter.

I know there are many children out there in need, in want, in hopes for a family to call their own, so I don't know if His no to me is my call to help those who need homes, who want a mommy and daddy to tuck them in at night.

Or...if His no to me is to take better care of, nurture, and love more on the ones He has already blessed me with.

Which ever one it is...I know I will still need Him in my time of disappointment.

Is this even P-O-S-S-I-B-L-E????

2008-12-26T21:13:00.000-08:00

Look Closely at the time!

That is in the AM of Christmas morning. I repeat the AM of Christmas morning!!!

This is what is under the tree at the time listed above!!!

This is what Nico is doing at the time listed above with the tree full of PRESENTS!!!

As are his sisters at the time listed above!!!

SOOoooo..this is what we do while we wait....

Do watch closely as one person is a bit excited about this waiting...

They finally come to and rip into the presents in a matter of minutes!!!

Then we take some time to goof off with each other in our new" digs"( a.ka. clothes )which is what we all mainly got for Christmas which was a bit of a change for us....but it went over really well!

It is never a Christmas with the Apples without some of these photo opps:

And poor poor Mark....He has nooooo idea what he is in for during the holidays, but he, too took it all very well. What a great sport he is!!!

Then of course we have to all partake in the BIG GIFT this year and play Rock Guitar Hero III. This is definitely a parents worst nightmare...look closely at the "boy/needs some prayer" on the TV screen...Again we did gift a book of choices to the girls and how life is full of them!!!Hmmm....

Nevertheless...we love all of God's children so we give this a shot!!!

There they go really concentrating because they all know who is up next...

And...what he thinks he can just sit down...just because you are a professional bass player? Hmmm...again he has nooooo idea....

Well...Nico has a lot to talk to you about as he shows all of us what it really means to be a Rock Guitar Hero on Christmas day dressed in his new Batman PJ's!

We hope that all of you had a very Merry Christmas and all shared in the joy of Jesus' birthday with some love, hugs, and kisses!!!

Adult ADHD or...

2008-12-19T07:11:00.000-08:00

Is it ADD?

I can't keep up with the latest clinical or politically correct term. It changes as fast as I have to change diapers around these neck of the woods I like to call Applehouse95! Ok...for those of you that don't know the 95 is the year Me and the poor, innocent, oh-so-sweet, man named Keith said "I DO!"

Now as for my question...I need to know when do you decide to label, or just admit that is what you have? When I say "you" I mean "me." Do you go see a doctor, a psychiatrist or psychologist? Ok...here's the deal...I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE my life. I am amazed what God has blessed me with daily which I oh-so-DO NOT deserve. However....I just can't seem to stay focused. I wake up with "good intentions." I start most days with prayer most of the time with my husband, a good word from the Bible, and even some praise music...Ok...maybe some pop, rock,jazz, or country music to get me moving. Or just a good 3-5 mile run if I can get up before the crack of dawn. Geez...I am not that much of a goody-2-shoes. I like to have a little fun...

I also have THE LIST....you know the TO DO LIST organized and ready to tackle for the day. Yet...I might....when I say might...I mean might get 1 to 2 things done and done RIGHT!
Then before I know it I have run around in circles like one of those dogs you see chasing their own tails and before I know it... it is time to go to bed and I find myself wondering...
What did I do today?

Does this make me an Adult with ADHD or ADD?

If so...I accept full responsibility because I am an Adult...at least that is what I am told!

Oh...before I forget...MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Why Wait?

2008-12-17T12:40:00.000-08:00

Until Christmas to celebrate Jesus' Birthday?

I know this could strike an all-out debate that would never come to a unanimous agreement...sooo...I am asking myself why wait? Of course...I do accept comments, complaints, or answers to why you do or do not wait. YES...I am one of those that love reading the comment section, I mean what is the point of this blogging to the world if I don't hear your voice??? Awkward silence... Ok...now that that is out of the way....Back to the post.

Since this is the season every one including myself stresses, wonders, stresses, questions the meaning of it all,mainly stresses over what, who, when, where should I give presents to...I in my oh-so-not-grown up knowledge of life have decided to say Merry Christmas to everyone all year long. I know, you are thinking here she goes again...trying to be different... blah, blah, blah, humbug!!!

I can take it. This too will probably last about as long as I can diet. What I am hoping to get across is I think He, our Lord and Saviour deserves to be celebrated everyday, all year long.
Duh...we all know that so...again I say Merry Christmas and may you savor the gifts He has already given you each day!!!

Ugghhh....What is SHE trying to do to MEEE??

2008-12-15T10:35:00.000-08:00

WHO? My lil' Sis

WHAT? Make me FAT 8 days into my 35th year

WHY? Because she made me the biggest, most beautiful, tastiest, melt-in-your mouth birthday cake/looks like a wedding cake for ME that I am still-yes-still eating at least a slice OK-2 slices a day of! I mean...times are tough and I hate to see food go to waste-apparently not on my waist!

Well...really it is gonna be OK....I won't need therapy-my husband gets to be my punching bag/therapist for a much more reasonable price!!! However...I must admit I still never get enough of her driving me "crazy" as I am seen with my family visiting her at IveyCake as were many others that have been so sweet to post their love for her oh-so-yummy-creations!!!

So, hopefully I don't get an earful for not being the first to post anything being I am the Big Sis that drove her crazy growing up as well...here I go!!! Love you Lil' Sis and here's to living and loving your DREAM!

Here are my girls just in a daze over the pretty colors...

Have you ever seen a more beautiful display?

Yes...this is gonna go down FAST

I think E.K. is loving every last bite

As is Nico is savoring every last lick!!!

My All-American Girl...LIVE!!!

2008-12-14T20:14:00.001-08:00

You know you are a REDNECK...

2008-12-12T06:34:00.000-08:00

When you are the ONLY family out in your whole neighborhood in the freezing cold snow!!!

And you are smiling and on a mission to build a snowman.

That looks like THIS:

Hmmm...Is it because we are from Texas or is it because we live in Tennessee?

You especially know you are a redneck when you pose for pictures in front of your snowman and when your children make snow angels with the family cat!!!!

And this... really confirms IT all!

Merry Christmas from Applehouse95!

The Reviews are IN

2008-12-08T17:51:00.000-08:00

Look what was in the www.tennessean.com

I promise I am NOT making this up!!!
It was a bit long, so I only posted the BEST PART!!!

Carrie Underwood impresses, shows room to grow at Sommet
CINDY WATTS • Staff Writer • December 8, 2008

Before “All-American Girl," Underwood pulled a young girl from the audience to help her sing, asking the child if she knew the words. "Sort of," replied the fan, who said her name was Riley Apple. “If I put the mike up to you, can you sing ‘All-American Girl’? Yes? Well, you know as much as I do,” Underwood joked. The exchange was one of the evening’s more memorable moments.

Life as A Rock Star

2008-12-08T08:02:00.001-08:00

NOW...Don't be jealous...I know it's just not right to have soooo Much STAR treatment on one Birthday!!!

BUT...I Do have a couple of Super ROCKSTAR daughters who performed on stage on my Birthday weekend:

Mia in the Tis' the Season Christmas Theater Production

Rylee on stage at the Carrie Underwood concert last night singing

All American Girl

A Big THANK YOU to Auntie Ivey and her "connections" with the Band for getting to be in the limelight on my BIRTHDAY!!!

Me and MY ALL-AMERICAN GIRLS!!!

What MORE can a simple girl turning 35 ask for????

I am looking forward to another YEAR full of love, laughter,surprises and JOY!!!
THANK YOU JESUS for ALL THE GOOD IN MY LIFE!!!

I would like to THANK the Acadamy...

2008-12-08T07:50:00.000-08:00

AND...

My Knight in Shining Armor (a.k.a. Husband), my friends and family

for ALL

making me feel Like a

"ROCK STAR "

on my

35th BIRTHDAY!!!

Make a Smilebox scrapbook

Apple Brown Betty

2008-12-06T11:12:00.000-08:00

It is hours away from Betty's birthday and I hope she knows how special she is. No doubt she has affected hundreds of lives in a positive way in our community and in lands far away. Betty is my one and only love for life. She amazes me every day at the perserverance and positive attitude she pours out into her life and everyone around her. SHE CAN TRULY "accomplish anything through Christ who strengthens her." Betty is my best friend who will not let me sink into the dark places of my heart and mind and be defeated the obstacles of every day life. She is my encourager who laughs with me crys with me and prays with me. Betty Apple you are the best wife, friend, mom, lover, runner, wine conasuer, however you spell it , opaire, counselorbabysitter, shopper, dreamer, saxophone player, LOVER OF People this world could hope for and I love you bigger every day.

Mommy...I can do it myself

2008-12-05T06:24:00.000-08:00

Sooooo.....I let him have his "privacy"

and

after about 5 minutes I find this:

OF COURSE I HAD to take a picture!

Franklin Cupcake Showdown: Ivey Cake vs. Curious Gourmet [Guest Posts]

2008-12-03T15:14:00.001-08:00

I KNOW I LIKE TO BRAG!!!

I CAN'T HELP IT!!!

Franklin Cupcake Showdown: Ivey Cake vs. Curious Gourmet [Guest Posts]

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What Makes Me A Grown Up?

2008-12-02T07:42:00.000-08:00

I ask this question out loud mainly because I am quickly approaching my 35th Birthday! When I say quickly....I mean I only have 5 more days to say I am 34 years old!

So...what's the big deal you might be asking yourself as you sit and read this? Well...I keep wondering when will I feel like a grown up?

You know, when you were a kid and watched the "grown ups" be" grown ups"... doing "grown up" things meant ...you would BE a "grown up" kinda person.

Ok...so most of you might be thinking Betty is just going through an early "mid-life crisis", and that you will pray for me and it to will soon pass along with her other off-the-wall thoughts. I can see that, however, really.... I just don't know if I will ever FEEL like a grown-up.

Other than the fact that I will be another year older and half-way to 40, married with children,
a registered voter, a member of a local church, and of course an upstanding citizen of the community (how obnoxious of me to brag...I know)....really....
WHAT MAKES ME A GROWN-UP?

I DID Shower after all

2008-12-01T09:04:00.001-08:00

Just enough times to spend many thankful moments

with my LOVED ONES this past week and not STINK them away from my

HUGS and KISSES

Of Course a week off from school requires a trip to the town mall or public family bathroom?

3 Generations of love, laughter, and LIFE together on Turkey Day or for us Mexican/Turkey Day. I'll share that story later....much later....

My main squeeze and our Mia...all something to be thankful for!

My Mom and Dad BOTH SMILING in the same picture....PRICELESS!!!
Along with my brother Chris who I have not seen in years with girlfriend came up to celebrate Thanksgiving....again...PRICELESS!

And to end a week of THANKSGIVING we gather around a good friend's freshly decorated Christmas tree for a photo opp that will be cherished for years to come!!!

Is it bad, sad or somewhat normal?

2008-11-25T09:45:00.000-08:00

That I have NOT showered since FRIDAY and it is TUESDAY?

I have no real good excuse. I have access to 2 showers, however only my husband, 3 children, and even the cat takes advantage of these facilities.

Once there was a time in junior high that I would set my alarm at 4:59 AM sharp to be the first to use the bathroom before my sister could even open her eyes. It was always a race to see who would get the bathroom FIRST...to shower, mouse, curl, re-brush the bangs at least 125 times to get it just so, spray on the AQUA NET...yes AQUA NET and do it all over again 365 days a year!!!

What Happened?

Again...I ask is it bad, sad or normal?

Worth IT All

2008-11-21T08:41:00.000-08:00

When He Brings ME These HOME For No reason:

The Laundry, The Dishes, The Toilet seat up, The things that "have a place but never make it to their place" make IT all the more worth it to do over and over AGAIN!

I LOVE YOU!

Please Tell Me

2008-11-20T07:49:00.001-08:00

That this is also happening at your house!

That LAUNDRY is never-ending and overtaking every room in your house!!!

Please tell me that your house is not the candles burning ever-so-homey-like, just dusted, swept, mopped, everything put in its place kinda home everyday of the week!!!

Please tell me that somedays it is like mine is today with tooooo many other things going that it will stay that way pretty much all day today!!!

Now..this is what I would call "airing" out some dirty and even clean-just-not-folded or was folded then got unfolded-never-put away laundry.

Here is my laundry room floor that was actually empty last night!

Now here are the clothes that require air-drying or will just not fit right hanging on my banister!

NICE DECOR...huh!

Here is my sweet hubby's clean-but-just don't know if I have time to hang them up today work pants laying on his dresser drawer. Again...new decor idea for master bedrooms.

Now...on to the master bathroom!

Always a good place to lay a t-shirt down for just a minute or sooo...
Yes...that is his and only his! No need to describe...just wonder WHY?
Well...last but not least...the couch that seems to have endless piles of clean clothes that never seem to make it to anywhere but on the person that it belongs to and back again!
So....again..please TELL ME it's NOT ONLY ME!!!

Who Says?

2008-11-17T09:22:00.000-08:00

Once you get married, have kids, have a job, a mortgage, responsiblities, blah...blah...blah...

That you can't hang out with some GOOD friends?

And share an awesome dinner out together?

Then head to the local skate rink?

Have a few falls and laughs...

Pick yourself back up and hang on for dear life to your partner in life!

Or what about enter a skating contest?

I am proud to say my man was in the top 3 of finishers!!!

I say by the looks on our faces WE SAY YOU CAN!!!

And you will thank each other for it often!

And so will your kids as they watch married people can still have fun, friends, goof-off, and be responsible all in the same LIFE!!!

One Yellow Daisy

2008-11-13T07:04:00.000-08:00

What's the significance of this daisy you ask?

I can't say I have some amazing-wow-awesomeness-Robert Frost poetic-like answer.

I just know that it is November 13, 2008 and all my other flowers have withered away, the leaves are falling to the ground, and the weeds are popping up everywhere because I have done very little to my garden this year. However, here she is- one yellow daisy standing tall, bright, and vibrant on this Fall, gloomy, overcast day!

So...all I can say about it is THANK YOU GOD for reminding me of how blessed and beautiful my life is . THANK YOU GOD for always being my ONE YELLOW DAISY through life's calm and through life's storm!